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Lessons from a Cardinal by Karen Fattorosi
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| Posted by: Webster University |
4/23/2007 |
I don’t need an alarm any more. With the promise of spring came an intruder in the early morning hours and continuing throughout the day. A bright red cardinal has taken possession of a particular branch of my trimmed crepe myrtle and gazes at my office window nearby. At random intervals the cardinal takes rapid flight straight into the window, strikes it sharply with his beak, then again, then again, and flies back to the branch. This three part attack on the window pane occurs for quarter and half-hours at a time. I’ve done the on-line research on this pesky bird and have tried the suggested remedies. Sheets of tin foil hang at random heights in front of the window, silhouettes of hawks are taped to the window pane, a plastic owl sits nestled in the knuckles of the same crepe myrtle. None of these has deterred the bird. It seems that the male cardinal, in a territorial battle, has discovered the male invader in my window. That primal instinct does not accommodate the possibility that the image is merely the bird’s reflection in a glass and not an actual bird.
Knowing this bit of ornithological fact doesn’t really curtail the annoyance in the morning but I find myself fascinated during the day sitting in the office and witnessing the bravado with which this cardinal defends his territory. Obviously tuned into surroundings and danger, this bird quickly dismisses my meager attempts to deter. The foil didn’t slow him down at all, the hawk and owl are ignored. It reminds me of the quickness that we pay attention to the obvious details in our every day world and transactions with our environment and others. But we, as is the cardinal, are often oblivious to the larger picture. The enemy we pose and posture against, the supposed opposition, the competition that we fancy to be ever present are merely a figment of our imagination.
Don’t you suppose we could better use the time, resources, and energy to develop our business, our lives, our relationships rather than in imaginary battle? And for that matter, can you imagine the headache that cardinal lives with? Next week I will share my thoughts on my pond and the stealthy visitor that took my largest fish yesterday. |
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Re: Lessons from a Cardinal by Karen Fattorosi |
By Vicky Nelson on
4/23/2007 |
Often, the brutal truth of nature saddens me. All of God's creatures continuously on high alert. Instinctively, to survive they day and maintain the species, all manner of offense and defense must be used. In some cases, as with the persistent cardinal, the enemy is indeed perceived rather than real.
Then, there is gladness that humans are the 'higher species', able to divert those survival energies to our lives, personally and professionally. What a blessing, the ability to use our abilities in that manner. There should be no stopping us.
BUT! How often do those survival mechanisms get turned topsy turvey so that we are fighting the imagined enemy at the window? How does anxiety and self protection translate into the 'human headache'? Wounded birds in our society, pecking endlessly with tender beaks.
As business and counseling students, awareness must be maintained to this aspect of human nature, so that together we can enhance the relational and business successes of our clients. |
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Re: Lessons from a Cardinal by Karen Fattorosi |
By Denise Dusing on
4/24/2007 |
| Well, just be happy you have a cardinal...I have a woodpecker. It sounds like a jackhammer on my outsie bedroom wall. In addition, somehow this little beast knows exactly when he has succeeded in waking me up, and promptly leaves after doing so. I'm sure it's a plot. You're quite right about better using time, resources, and energy to develop our careers, lives, and relationships than in imaginary battles. (Although at times, when I look at the life my Shit-zu leads, I'm envious). Besides, I always thought it would be so neat to be able to fly. I do think I waste a lot of energy on simple, stupid things. Mostly on worrying. In the end worrying gets me nowhere and only succeeds in making me more stressed out. I try to remind myself to be content with my choices and what life brings me as a result of those decisions. Now that my children have grown and 'flown from the nest' I am trying to concentrate more on the very things you mentioned. Only this time it's for me and what I want to achieve and to do to maintain happiness. I can't wait to hear about your thoughts on the pond and the visitor that took your fish. I gave up on fish since the hawk in the adjacent field thought we were putting them in the pond for him, and they vanished one by one. |
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Re: Lessons from a Cardinal by Karen Fattorosi |
By Karen Fattorosi on
4/26/2007 |
| Yes, Denise. Nature has a way of redistributing resources. The pond, fish, hawk have a place in the cylce of life. |
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Re: Lessons from a Cardinal by Karen Fattorosi |
By Laura Torchia on
5/12/2007 |
Nature is amazing! Your story reminds me of the commercial when the birds fly into the glass because it is so crystal clear. The next part of the commercial deals with the birds laughing hysterically because the man keeps walking into the galss door. Very funny!!
Even though you have tried to deter the behavior of the cardinal, it still continues to fly into the window. Like you said, imagine the headache it must live with!! In couseling, couselors help clients to realize and deal with their problems by discussions, readings,imagery... However, if the client is not ready to move on and deal with the issue at hand, they are just going to keep banging their head against the glass until they come to the conclusion (with the help of the counselor) that something can be done to relieve the pain in their life.
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