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 Second-Hand Rose by Karen Fattorosi
 
Location: BlogsWebster University Business Experts    
Posted by: Webster University 4/16/2007

Who hasn’t been to a garage sale? Until recently I had been to maybe a handful–although I held a few huge ones preparing for big moves. A newfound delight, I am deriving heaps of pleasure and finding wonderful treasures by going to yard/garage sales and flea markets. I don’t think Marion county is any different than many others when it comes to the reprocessing of goods and discards. What does surprise me is that second hand merchandise is the lifeblood of many, many "merchants." The professional buyers scramble to garage sales early Friday morning and scoop up anything they believe will resell at flea markets, thrift or consignment stores, or on ebay at a higher price.

As I see it, the business of second-hand goods serves many useful functions. It provides a source of income to people willing to buy and sell in what I would consider a precarious environment, made that way by the unpredictableness of the availablility of goods. I found a large distinctive etched mirror at a local charitable thrift store priced at four dollars. I passed it up. The next week I saw the same mirror at a consignment shop with a price tag of $55.00. While I only saw a mirror, someone else saw profit.

This second-hand market is a source of household goods at very inexpensive prices to people who have limited financial resources. Recently at a yard sale, I chatted with a newly separated man who was furnishing his apartment from garage sale findings. He had $200 dollars to spend, had found just about all he would need, and had money left over. His purchases included new towels, assorted linens, a box full of cleaning supplies, bags of kitchen utensils and dinnerware, alarm clock–a car full of stuff to supply his new life.

Garage/yard sales provide an answer to the dilemma of "what do we do with all this stuff?" Consumerism doesn’t feel so bad if we can put our discards into the hands of someone else. It seems that it’s harder to toss something out if we paid full price for it. I hear "someone can use this" or "this is too good to throw out" rattling around in my head. My stuff tends to make the back seat trip to the local charity drop-off door.

Everybody has boxes of things, often transported during moves from one house to another without ever being unpacked. You know the ones–they have newspaper articles, old magazines, mementos, maybe some old family photos, what I call desk detritus (2nd definition: debris). I have a few. The stuff from the back of the drawers, bottom of the closet, top shelves, that gets dumped into a box when we move. We keep this stuff because it has some meaning to us. Put it out at a garage sale and be amazed at how easily someone else will pick through it, select anything of value, and discard the rest. Without meaning, the stuff is just stuff.

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Re: Second-Hand Rose by Karen Fattorosi    By Cassandra Duchatelier on 4/16/2007
It's funny because I used to hang on to everything but after a while I ended up with all this "STUFF." In past three years the things I have owned and no longer use, I have donated some to the various charities and friends who've mentioned they liked a particular item so I gave it to them.

When I was decorating my classroom in 2004 I used knick Knacks that I could used for the teachable moments that usually come about to model a lesson/skill for my class.

Although i do go to thrift stores every now and then to find those rare pieces that have a vintage look. I don't go as often as I used to...


Re: Second-Hand Rose by Karen Fattorosi    By Sherry Strickland on 4/17/2007
When my son turned one, I took him for pictures at the local Sears. I bought him a beautiful 4 piece outfit, that included a tie and suspenders. He looked just precious. His pictures looked adorable, and I had enlargements made of every single one of them.

One month later his father had a horrible accident and could no longer work. With just me working, I had to start finding new and clever ways to make money. At the time of my garage sale, I held three jobs. I am a full time teacher, I was teaching a homebound student, and I am working hard at my interior design business. To add on top of all of this, my GI bill is about to expire and I went back for my masters degree, in the counseling field, at Webster University. My time with my son is already limited and he has had his share of health problems. With an upcoming surgery for him scheduled and a need for quick cash, I decided a garage sale would be the best thing for me to do.

For about 2-3 weeks my house was a mess of piles. The day of the garage sale was planned, and hours before I developed a bug. I rescheduled the sale for the next week. I was like an Olympian jumping over piles all over my house. Finally, the day of the garage sale came. I was definitely excited to get my house back.

I put out many different items. A stroller, some chipped up pillars, an office chair, baby clothes, etc. All of my big items sold, and I was so very excited. The baby clothes I had marked for .25 a piece. I like to mark things cheap and see the customer have that great smile from getting a deal. As I was putting items in a bag for a customer, my son's little 1 year picture outfit was with her collection of treasures. At the time, I didn't realize how much that moment would disturb me for weeks to come.

Later on that night, as I was walking through the house, I glanced at my son's one year picture. I realized that the outfit he had on in the picture was the same one that I sold for a total of .50. My heart sank. I tried to justify things in my mind like...that outfit will bring joy to someone else...it's just clothes...he won't be able to wear it again...etc. My son will probably never care that I sold that outfit, but inside of me I have this sense of yuck. I feel like I sold a $10,000 necklace for .50.

All in all, I feel my garage sale was a success and I just hope that whoever bought my second-hand rose, will find it just as sweet.




Re: Second-Hand Rose by Karen Fattorosi    By Nancy Curtis on 4/18/2007
I have never been entrigued with garage sales, but I do have too much "stuff." The results of living all over this country from New England (My heritage), to California, Ohio and now Florida has cluttered my life to the max. I have a lady friend that has an antique/second hand store and I always call on her help when I need to "down-size" again. As the years roll by, however, I have less and less need for
more "stuff." Recently, I actually hate to shop, as I always seem to see the same merchandise everywhere I go. Everyone is marketing something and I usually feel the need to escape and create my own world of unique experiences, peace and simple dreams. I crave the interaction of my new grandchild and I am amazed at how easily he stirs my heart; I want to be a positive inspiration to my family and my friends and I want to overlook insensitiviities and callous remarks, as well as to avoid making them; I want to take the time to appreciate the beauty in a flower in the midst of the chaos of life; I want to remember to thank God for all the blessings that I enjoy every day; I want to treasure the beauty in life and the beauty of each individual I meet and I want to strive to keep things simple.

Re: Second-Hand Rose by Karen Fattorosi    By Kathryn Warren on 4/22/2007
I had a garage sale in January. My husband and I moved into a new home in April of 2006. The square footage of our home went from 2100 to 3500 and still, I had piles and piles to unload. In all of the scurrying around to prepare to sell my no longer wanted goods, I began to think--what was I thinking when I bought this!!?? The conclusion that came to me was that I am quite the impulse buyer and that the people who set up these impulse buy areas in stores love people like me! When it came down to it, I learned that I am a want person--not a need person--and that made me sad. Here I am fulfilling so many of the wants of my life that I didn't consider the other areas where that money could have been placed to benefit my family or others in a more productive way than a second-hand item that I am fairly certain I never even used! Since my garage sale, I have inacted a new routine for myself when I am tempted by an impulse buy.
1. Do I need this? I mean REALLY need this?
2. Ok, so I "need" it--what for? What is the practical purpose for this item?
3. How much use am I really going to have for this? What is the staying power of this item in my home?

From here on out, I intend to only buy items that are so needed that by the time I am done with them, there is no way that they would be of use to another. They will be to ratty or used up. The extra money hass already begun to add up and my husband and I are discussing which charity we believe will be the most approprite for a donation from us that is meaningful to us.

At this time, I limit my impulse buys to packs of gum at the grocery store. What a rose of a life lesson to learn from a garage sale!

Re: Second-Hand Rose by Karen Fattorosi    By Guilaine Bell on 4/23/2007
I agree that without meaning stuff is just stuff. My husband alway fuss at me for always throwing away stuff. He always say" maybe you will need it one day." I think to myself this thing has been sitting here for years and that day has not come yet so it probably will never come. I am always the one to encourage him to have a garage sale because my perception is this when it come to material things," I was not born with it and I am not going to be buried with it." With this in mind, it is easy for me not to be attached to material things. Garage sales are great. You seldom see me buying anything from the garage sales because I have enough junk so why add more to my house. Some things at the garage sales are valuable at the time of need but other than that I try not to add more to my own collections. If my husband would let me have a garage sale every couple of months I would but he does not want to give his stuff up so after giving all my stuff away I need his stuff. LOL

Re: Second-Hand Rose by Karen Fattorosi    By Tracy Fowler on 4/29/2007
Hi Dr. Fattorosi. I love going to garage sales and thrift stores. I have found so many items there, including brand new toys that are still in the packaging and name brand clothes. I have one child already, and another on the way. Due to complications with the pregnancy, my doctor has said I cannot work until after my son is born, so at the moment second-hand stuff is almost a necessity for my family.

I also enjoy having garage sales. The preparation for them is never fun, but I love to see my profits at the end of the day. There have been times I have pulled in over $400, so for me it is definitely worth the effort. I just had one a few months ago and intend on having another next month. I am amazed at how much stuff I have kept over the years that is useless. With the new baby coming, I have begun to clear out everything in my life that I can't use, don't use and will never use.

Re: Second-Hand Rose by Karen Fattorosi    By Betty Asselin on 6/5/2007
Dear Karen and friends, I have a senior citizen friend who is positively turned on by garage sales and flea markets. She is not poor, she has a beautiful home which she has furnished with items that she has pur- chased from second-hand rose businesses. Most of her clothes also are beautiful and purchased less than new. If I call her between 8 and 10 o'clock on any morning (especially Saturday) she is never home. I ask her to return my call and she happily tells me that she was out "getting her fix" at yard sales, etc. We lived in a city in south Florida which has at least 30 Thrift Shops. The items run the gamut from absolutely beautiful to "stuff" (something for everyone)
and everyone is there waiting for the next rack to be rolled out and displayed.
I admire those who manage these establishments and who shop in them. Too many dollars are spent on new items that are worn rarely if ever and hang in closets for too long, while others might need them.
Knowing this friend described above has made me aware of the usefulness of second hand items and even helps turn my steering wheel in their parking lots on occasion even when I am alone.

Re: Second-Hand Rose by Karen Fattorosi    By Betty Asselin on 6/5/2007
Dear Karen and friends, I have a senior citizen friend who is positively turned on by garage sales and flea markets. She is not poor, she has a beautiful home which she has furnished with items that she has pur- chased from second-hand rose businesses. Most of her clothes also are beautiful and purchased less than new. If I call her between 8 and 10 o'clock on any morning (especially Saturday) she is never home. I ask her to return my call and she happily tells me that she was out "getting her fix" at yard sales, etc. We lived in a city in south Florida which has at least 30 Thrift Shops. The items run the gamut from absolutely beautiful to "stuff" (something for everyone)
and everyone is there waiting for the next rack to be rolled out and displayed.
I admire those who manage these establishments and who shop in them. Too many dollars are spent on new items that are worn rarely if ever and hang in closets for too long, while others might need them.
Knowing this friend described above has made me aware of the usefulness of second hand items and even helps turn my steering wheel in their parking lots on occasion even when I am alone.


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